I am confused why the community is so Rude and Judgemental?
It seems a very odd way to act?
Could someone please explain?
This site has been great and very Kind.
This is completely out of left field, but I’ll bite.
When you show up somewhere advertising a product or service, and this is literally your only contribution to the conversation, people naturally are suspicious.
Has nothing to do with being judgmental. Has to do with spam.
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The reason is likely the same for the reactions to both of your threads here.
For this one, you provided no context. Are you taking about the community being judgmental in general? Is there a specific instance you’re referring to? You haven’t explained that here so…
Assuming you’re talking about reactions to your other thread, @WBDaddy pretty much has it covered. You’ve contributed nothing else to this community so how could we possibly know who you are or whether you’re legit at all. How would we know you aren’t just a spam account that got through the filters.
As I said, you provided no context for that thread either. Given that I had to ask what you intended, and others did as well, it’s safe to say you didn’t explain yourself well at all.
And if you think this post contains hostility, it does not. I’m just explaining it as I see it.
Clarity in communication helps people understand. I had no context for the OP’s post so I hunted up the only other thread they posted in. And I’m assuming the two are related. I’m still not sure what the first thread was about? Talking about a business idea and asking if people would be interested? Making the idea into an actual business?? I’m guessing OP was not happy with the replies. The only thing I have to say is people can’t read minds- you have to fully explain so people can understand,OP. Then you might get the results you’re looking for.
Also for the record (and before any potential butthurt) I’m not being judgemental. (Hell I’m not even sure what the topic is let alone judging it). I’m merely pointing out clarity is key for successful communication.
Best of luck in your future endeavours.
Hi Thanks for the input I have no problem with people being suspicious or thinking I am Spam,
I am setting up a Clinic for AB’s that have suffered Trauma in there life and want to seek Help,
There are many who use the ABDL sites that want this service I have 100’s of E-mails to prove this.
I have been called a con artist scammer liar thief Based on nothing?.
Contempt prior to investigation.
So the post is really to start a conversation about the narrow views of some.
I make mistakes and not very subtle at times but I want AB’s to be able to receive Therapy in a setting that respects there AB side.
This site has been more curious than rude so I thank you for the constructive comments.
Hi Thanks for the input I have no problem with people being suspicious or thinking I am Spam,
I am setting up a Clinic for AB’s that have suffered Trauma in there life and want to seek Help,
There are many who use the ABDL sites that want this service I have 100’s of E-mails to prove this.
I have been called a con artist scammer liar thief Based on nothing?.
Contempt prior to investigation.
So the post is really to start a conversation about the narrow views of some.
I make mistakes and not very subtle at times but I want AB’s to be able to receive Therapy in a setting that respects there AB side.
This site has been more curious than rude so I thank you for the constructive comments.
I am not used to Social media and find the hate and anger hard to deal with,
but want to Thank-you for your kind words.
Hi not hostile, I appreciate the comments.
Hi I understand that and agree with you,
I will try to put more details,
Thanks.
I’ve seen your posts on fetlife.
I have no reason why this happened but I commented simply ‘what’s the catch?’ As I was inquisitive as to what you where offering. This is because, as some people have rightly already mentioned, scams are rife. Having being a victim myself Im cautious.
Someone reported my comment ‘what’s the catch?’ And banned me for life for that comment.
I don’t know who reported it and banned me from the group but things like this won’t help. I’m not mad, but things like this doesn’t help you. I was genuinely interested in talking about what you do as I am a trauma survivor.
Hi thanks for your comment,
I have my own group on fetlife and we are all like minded so no hate etc,
Please join,
https://fetlife.com/groups/224243
Holy crap, dude, that is just awful!
The Company is now registered with Companies house Elite AB Clinic LTD.
We are the First Adult babies Nursery that is a Limited company and will soon be offering referrals from the NHS for DBT therapy,
Sorry if my posts are not explaining what I offer.
The Company is now registered with Companies house Elite AB Clinic LTD.
We are the First Adult babies Nursery that is a Limited company and will soon be offering referrals from the NHS for DBT therapy,
Hi I hope that now my Company is now registered with Companies House Elite AB Clinic LTD that some will understand I am not trying to hurt the community,
I have made mistakes and have been naïve but I am opening the Nursery to help many who are unable to get the help they need in the Kink Community,
It’s good you got your company registered. If you want to attract potential customers (patients?), it might help if you have specific examples of what your company offers.
Is it a group of therapists or psychiatrists who are ABDL / kink friendly and aware?
Is it a physical location such as a building clients could visit or is it online counseling? If it’s offline in the real world, saying at least the country it’s located in would be a good start. Is it in America? Europe? Thailand?
Or does it offer ageplay or nanny sessions?
In other words, what does a session look like?
Potential customers will also be interested in prices as well.
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On the weekend the Nanny would take care of all your needs, and these would be discussed before you visit so we can give you the care you want.
Each Nursery will have a cot and Highchair with a changing table and a large sofa with soft toys and a Large TV for Cartoons or Videos.
Over the weekend the therapist will give you 6 sessions of therapy, and this of course will be between you and the Therapist.
We will also have a sand pit and a small play area in the Garden, which is not overlooked,
There will also be a room if the AB want s to bring a partner or Carer with them for the experience.
The Format of the Visit is very open as it’s a Bespoke service and I want to make it available to as many as possible.
The cost for the 3-night Fri/Sat/Sun is £3500 and we will offer weekend overnights for £750 6pm to 9am and also if you wanted to visit for a hour midweek to see are facilities before booking the weekend visits the cost is £125 per hour.
The work starts on the nursery in Jan, and I will be posting updates and pics on the website,
We are in East Sussex UK
Because it is a bespoke service all clients will have the experience they ask for so hard to say what will happen at the session, I have a Therapist who has worked with many in the Kink Community and will be at the Clinic on the weekend for any that want her services, I also have 1 Mummy and Daddy but looking for more mummies as want the best choice possible for the Clients,
Not patients as they are not ill, but I am in talks with the NHS to have a referral service for DBT therapy and inner Child work, I want to make it acceptable for all AB’s to seek help with any problems they have in a environment that respects there AB side, There are too many that cant at the moment because All nurseries have some sort of sexual element involved, We are the 1st that has NO SEXUAL element in our service, We of course have cuddles and love but that’s it, I hope I have answered some of your questions, I am not perfect and make mistake so your input is most welcome, Blessings to you and your family
If you’re going to derail your own thread to advertise instead of using the appropriate forum, then it will be locked or moved.
I probably should lock this whole thing and I’m pretty sure one of the other @moderators will as soon as they see it. But I’ve got stuff to do so I guess your post will survive until then.
This reply is just a courtesy I probably shouldn’t be extending at this point.