Hello everybody! I have often visited this site but been afraid to become a member and thanks to my fiance letting me know it was ok with him I have finally done it! I’m here honsetly because I need some advice from some of you. My fiance and I have a relationship similar to a baby girl/daddy relationship and I need advice on how to help my fiance become a better “daddy” figure. . .he is good now and makes me happy but things have happened in my past that make him unsure of how to react to me. . .please can anyone help? ???
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He says he doesn’t have limits with it but he is worried about me. I was ina relationship where I was beaten for just being who I am. He is scared of how to I guess approach me in some ways in our little world due to that. He would NEVER do anything to hurt me but that is is fear. . .that he will make me afraid of him.
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It sounds like it’s just a matter of you reassuring him that whatever he does is going to be okay.
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Thank you for the advice. I sat down and talked with him last night and now he seems a little more sure with what he does.