Couple nurtured virtual child while real baby starved

Seoul, South Korea (CNN) – Police have arrested a South Korean couple whose toddler starved to death while they were raising a virtual child online, authorities said.

The couple fed their 3-month-old daughter once a day between marathon stretches in a local Internet cafe, where they were raising a virtual child in the fantasy role-playing game Prius Online, police told local reporters Friday.

Prius Online is a 3-D game in which players nurture an online companion, Anima, a young girl with mysterious powers who grows and increases her skills as the game progresses.

Police have not identified the 41-year-old father and 25-year-old mother, who lived in Suwon, a suburb south of Seoul. But the father apologized, speaking to reporters.

“I wish that she hadn’t got sick and that she will live well in heaven forever. And as the father, I am sorry,” he said.

The baby reportedly died five months ago.

South Korea has one of the world’s fastest broadband networks. Seoul has won international awards for e-governance. Online gaming teams are sponsored by major conglomerates and 24-hour, high-speed Internet cafes, known as PC Bangs, dot every urban neighborhood.

Police said the couple had lost their jobs and used the game as an escape from reality, especially after the birth of their premature baby.

“They instead played an online game in which they raised a virtual character so as to escape from reality, which led to the death of their real baby,” Chung Jin-won, a police officer in Suwon, told Yonhap News Agency.

“South Korea remains a very conservative society so people who fall outside the norm can come under severe stress and pressure,” said Michael Breen, the Seoul-based author of “The Koreans.”

“The Internet has provided such people with a paradise to escape to and simply get lost in.”

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I saw that on CNN yesterday morning before I went to work, and my thought was how could they not realize their child was sick. I mean, I have learned how to handle my addictions, obsessions, et al as best as I can. UGH. That story disgusted me as someone who would one day like to have a family.

I also last night was reading how in South Korea, they have internet boot camps designed to free people from their games and online lives.

It fascinates me people let their online lives take them over when their real lives, like mine are just as good. UGH.

BabyChris121675

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Guinivere, very true. Very true.

That’s why with my obsessions, and how I live my life I watch what I do and I always make sure my responsibilities come first before my obsessions and hobbies. Including how much I drink, and when because I have a lot to lose in my life. Sure, I have lived in fantasy worlds myself, but that was before I learned a lot about myself.

I don’t even play games online myself, as I prefer my consoles, even I limit how much I play those because I prefer to let my responsibilities come first. Plus, I don’t want to be one of those AB-types that take things too far.

BabyChris121675

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To quote Julia Child, “Everything in moderation, including moderation.”

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That’s a paradox, and a mindfuck of a one at that.

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That’s messed up. I hate people who let internet take over their lives they get selfish. I admit I am online all the time but that is because I have nothing better to do but if I were working or had a baby, then I would be online less because I be more busy.

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That’s horrendous.

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For some reason Koreans and Japanese seem to have a lot of trouble with internet addiction. The Koreans are awesome gamers and the Japanese are crazy inventors, but more of them seem to have trouble separating reality from fantasy. Its just sad when something like this happens.

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Yeah…and them chinese are sure good at math, can fly, fight with a sword, and lets not forget the Vietnamese uncanny ability to do nails.

Woot for unnecessary stereotyping and debasing of a group of people. Seriously, there’s no reason we should ever be able to use the word “Race” to describe cultures of people. We’re all humans.

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With a sword? What about without a sword - obligatory Kung Fu skills.